>Here are some of the thoughts that went through my head on a few of my most recent dates:
Strike one. Making me sit outside in the 95 degree weather.
Did he just move away from me?
Great. He’s crossing his arms. Bad sign.
What am I doing here with this guy?
Wow. He’s still talking.
How the hell do I answer that question?
Am I making enough eye contact?
Does he think I’m staring at him too much?
Ooh. The lean back. Is that a good sign?
Crap, I just crossed my arms like his.
The old “I need to go back to the office” routine, eh?
Could he push his chair further away from me?
Could this be why I’m getting burned out on the whole online dating thing? I have been on 12 dates with 10 different guys in the past five months. Each one was because I initiated the contact. I am always the one who sends the first email, wink or flirt. It’s EXHAUSTING. It’s turned into more of a chore than a distraction.
The only thing that annoys me about it is that I feel I have no alternative in looking for a date. All of my friends are either married or otherwise hooked up and all of their friends are in the same boat. Clearly, dating in the office is not an option and probably a bad idea anyway, so what am I left with? I suppose I could start talking to random strangers in the grocery store.