>In the past, whenever I’ve been interested in a guy, I would pursue him and ask him out. Needless to say, this hasn’t resulted well for me. Most of the time, I ended up getting the brush off. OK, every time save once.
The question is, should I call up my crush and ask him out? Or do you think that if he was really interested in me, he would have attempted to contact me by now? I am a little tired of not being pursued. It would be a nice change of pace.
>I’d do it. But, then, I’m a Lesbian, and if I waited for someone to ask me out, I’d be curled up in a ball in my room for 15 years. Good luck.
>Go for it. He just might say yes. And you just might have a great time.
And if not, “Next please.”
>I’ve mulled it over a little more and decided that the only way I can be sure that he’s interested in me is if he asks me out. If I ask him out, he might just being saying yes because he’s “lonely” not because he actually wants to get to know me.
Besides, I’m tired of being in charge in all my relationships. It would be nice to have someone else take charge for once.