>What are your intentions with my daughter?

>In a recent message, a guy asked me what I’m looking for in a relationship. Do guys actually care about this or is he just making conversation? Entire books have been written solely on answering this question, but I think the answer is simple.

While I can’t speak for all women, it would seem to me that when you get to the heart of this question, most of us are looking for the same thing…commitment. Sure we want passion, companionship and all that good stuff, but the ultimate goal is for a guy to stick the hell around. Unless we don’t like you and then we are gone. In my case, that seems to be rare. Either I fall for guys too quickly, pick the wrong ones, or have something wrong with me of which I am not fully aware. Perhaps it’s a combination of all of the above. Of course, I’ve got insecurities as anyone who has read a few of my dating posts would easily see, but they can’t be that bad.

Regardless, the question this guy posed to me is interesting, but I think he’s just asking it to make conversation and doesn’t really give a shit about the answer. My gut tells me to keep the answer much shorter than this blog post.

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