>A friend of mine said that I sounded like Tom Hanks in Sleepless in Seattle when I said this to her.  Regardless, I’m going to ask this question.  At what point is it socially acceptable to “friend” a guy on Facebook?  I’ve been out on one date and have been chatting with him via Facebook & text since said date.  Should I send him a friend request just to see if it scares him off? 

You know what, forget it.  You can keep your rules & etiquette.  I’m going to do what makes me happy.