>Why don’t you call after the first date? If you don’t call or email or otherwise contact a gal you’ve just been out with during the first 24 hours after said date, she will assume you find her abhorrent and move on.
With regard to online dating, why do you take so long to meet for the first date? Seriously, how much can you learn about me from a few emails? Wouldn’t it just be better to meet in person as soon as possible?